If you've found your way here, I want you to know one thing straight up – breakups?
Yeah, they suck. I get it, truly. Been there, felt the sting of betrayal, and had to pick up the pieces scattered all around me. Trust me, it felt like I'd lost everything.
Every day I was drowning in a mix of sadness and anger, I realized that no one understood the depth of my pain. I kept replaying the past, wondering what I could have done differently. Feeling guilt and shame of "what I could have been " to stay in a dead-end relationship.
If this is you, I encourage you to keep reading...
Fast forward, and guess what? I went from shattered to shining! I even penned down a best-seller, "Say Yes to You," and transformed my confidence to Beyoncé levels. It took a few books, some sleepless nights, and a couple of anxiety attacks, but hey, I got the message loud and clear from the universe.
And surprise, surprise! After 6 months of separation, my Ex came back. —but instead of clinging to the past, I chose forgiveness. I chose me. I realized that the relationship I needed to build first was the one with myself.
That’s when I created She Commands. Because I understand how it feels when you don’t have the tools or emotional safety to let go of your ex. Letting go can feel like jumping off a cliff without a parachute, right? But what I learned was that emotional safety is the key. It's vital to your ability to grieve fully, heal, and move on—so you can rebuild and eventually attract the kind of healthy relationship you deserve.
I am probably basking in the sun or running around with my son and imagining all the different ways I can help my clients heal from heartbreak!
I’m here to tell you—no more settling for f-boys or toxic love. It’s time to swim in the pond of high-value men who listen, care, and plan your ideal dates. And it’s time for you to show up in your relationships feeling secure and whole because you’ve built a strong, loving relationship with yourself.
Now, I know this journey isn’t easy. It was one of the hardest chapters of my life, and there were days I didn’t know if I could make it through. But guess what? I did. And so will you.
If you’re ready to embrace love again but are feeling hesitant to trust or open your heart, it’s time to tap in. Let’s walk this journey together.
Today, when I look back at that woman who was lost in confusion and pain, I would tell her: One day, your tears will dry. You’ll find love again. One day, you’ll COMMAND your power and say “yes” to the woman in the mirror.
My healing journey wasn’t linear, but if I had a process that could have moved me from heartbreak to healed in three simple steps, I would have grabbed it in a heartbeat. I spent over five years carrying the weight of grief until I finally released it and moved forward. My 3-step system will expedite your healing process. Let me walk alongside you and help you heal, so you don’t have to carry that pain any longer.
You don’t have to do this alone, sis. I’ve got you.
I’m proud to have over 10 years of experience and several certifications that ensure you’re working with a true professional. Here’s what I bring to the table:
I live for this work, and I’m here to help you move from heartbreak to happily secure love.
Let’s get started, amiga. You’ve got this!
